On: judging

i do it .

everybody does it.

get over it people.

When did the human race become such a pathetic lot of spineless, wishy washy, whicheverwaythewindblows, pantywaists?

When did it become wrong to formulate opinions(whether specious or firmly grounded in truth?) and speak on them? Are we so afraid of having our ideas challenged that we'd rather hide under pretty but meaningless terms such as non judgemental, as a way of deflecting any and all responsibilty that comes from assessing a situation and making a (in most cases, moral) decision on it?

the word judgemental has become a pejorative, and people call other folks judgemental as if they also want to call down fire and brimstone as well.

People get all tide w/ extra bleach(read: soapboxy - i know. shutup) when extolling how virtous they are and how they are truly wonderful because "i don't judge."


well guess what? I do.

i mean its only right right?

The thing is, idiots think that if they DO judge, that all of a sudden their judging is going to materialize into this big ball of...hmm...lets call it "judgement" and suddenly "mean something". Hey brainiac! Your opinion meant nothing before you said it, and guess what, it means even less now!

so check it. im talking to my boy about the T.I drama, and after i have my diatribe about how "he's an idiot blah dummy blah blah shortsighted blah doesnt have the common sense he was born with blah..."

he gets all quiet and starts off saying "well im not going to judge..."

ok please don't try to play me like pokeno. saying youre not gonna judge(...like me right?) Like im stupid. I see you trying to kick dirt on me in that nice-nasty way.

um i would recount the rest of what he said, but to tell the truth i stopped listening once those words were uttered. Obviously if you are not going to make a call about said situation, then why are we talking about it? Seriously. True, my opinions hold little to no weight in this issue, else i'd be called in to state my feelings on the case. But that doesn't mean i don't have one. Or three.

Honestly i gives two craps about his opinion. By his statement alone, im sure it didnt agree with mine. It usually never does. In fact im considering dropping him as a friend altogether because he doesn't agree with me more.

But yeah...where was I? Oh yes. d00d! please cease and desist this farce of being non judgemental. If you have a brain, you're judging. Period. Whether you own up to it is a different story. Own your opinion son! Caress it, fondle it. When the revolution comes, it'll be all you have left. That and your pretty underwear. Cuz nobody wants the underwear of a man-lady.

Seriously folks. To do that is called human nature. And to deny that you do that is akin to admitting that youre a programmed robot. And while i fully expect the robo-takeover to occur within my lifetime, i'm not ready to assimilate yet.

im gonna take the rest of the day off and by him some frilly lace panties and judge everyone i come across just because i can.